Just 7 steps to ruin a child !

only 7 steps to ruin a child is not the father and mother are doing!
parents and teachers the following methods can be generic, the difference is: a parents ruined, destroyed a group of teachers, more efficient. The first should do is to destroy the child's self-esteem, will be demoted to the lowly status of the children on.
specific method has revealed the following:
1, let the children feel what will not work, no one appreciated him. For example, learning not work, not looks, not communication, in the household not, sloppy, careless, so his family for his involvement ... ... In short, he did not place the line.
2, I used to get over his For example, such things should always mention:
3, parents portray themselves as victims of the family's image, this would allow the child to feel guilty. And guilt are often a method of using low self-esteem through life. The following are examples of specific ways: often tell the child, since with him, you have not even seen the movie, you speak for his broken heart, all tired out sick, and the best out of your body and then the specific disease which is Since he caused. Or, if not to take care of him, his career has long been a great development.
4, and children must not be nice tone when speaking, must not use the tone of discussion, be sure to make the volume up to 70 dB or more, be sure to use the imperative tone. If you can meet some of the sarcastic irony of the Chinese phrase, the better. Such as (70 dB above grew up)
5, all children up to you to decide, must not give him a little freedom, and his whereabouts you must pay close attention. If a diary he must try to see; if he has a letter, be sure to review. This can result in his heart he is not a person's feelings, cause he is a puppet manipulated by others feeling. A suspect is not a person who is not likely to exert upward mobility.
6, the ability to learn to vent their anger. Units encountered something goes wrong, trying to find reasons to come back to the idea that children splash. No matter what, thanks to the child's fault and then teach him a lesson and stop his tears. This can effectively combat child's self-esteem, enhance the child's sense of inferiority, can also cause people to feel that he is not. (A child is often the punching bag)
7, children in public out of the ugly. First six are in the family Really want to completely destroy him, that Article 7 is the killer. You must be the presence of outsiders (or classmates or friends, or neighbors) loss of him, demoted him and let him shame. From a psychological perspective, this can produce a fear of social psychology, the idea generation ashamed. And a fear of social and ashamed of the people is very difficult based on the community.
you master these seven, you basically destroy her own child. Of course, had to sum up experience in practice, so that with ease, so as to completely destroy your child, make his life nothing.