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1, see you The blog can cure all disease-free disease prevention. I see you and timely because of the extra-marital affairs admitted to the pace, see your answer to those infatuated with women every day, I no longer sit still, want you to look at I have personally experienced it, and I hope people can help. I LG married for seven years, one-year-old boy. recently contacted me and love, and he asked the students know my number, and confidante name of contact, otherwise I would not accost him. But two months chat messages, and gradually ambiguous up to see him and said I had married did not regret that I also regret and sigh. because we were different from town to home separate. but I know we can not talk about the past, no future. So I am shy to talk about feelings, only that we are friends.
thought hiding in the modesty of the fart Lianhou (a Shun said, curtain is a fart, said he still love me, say my heart flutters. Just when I hesitated, he said, is the fact confidante lovers, we do love is the most appropriate. I look at Mongolia, and the original intention was to me his as his lover, let him lead an easy life floating up ah! what love me, I can not forget that kind of thing, are cheating the ghost. man's purpose is to go to bed, while women are always having an excuse to hold onto love.
see his true colors, I told him not to seek different channel, and his broken. if he did not go to his blog, do not look at the news of his stay, as her husband and sea in the Jinshan Temple was closed for five heart , can not miss the White Snake, the difference is that I volunteered to cover any news from him, from strangers. because we are not start off with friends, so the future can not do friends. here to advise those who spin around in the love of women women, to break off to a clean, if you do not want people to laugh at you idiots, not want to leave this affair would not return.
not necessarily extra-marital affairs are of no return, perhaps another fork in the road of life it? And not every man wants to make up right of first love, is just white girlfriend before going to bed, but also an unforgettable man is the truth, to reunite, and not for others more than put forward a woman. but do not support a smooth mix women and love, without him, owed much to find love is back, life regression. do not do a man's roots, which requires a woman's self-determined and self-confidence to support the roots of some women to be proud when, in fact, man, where is the character with the roots of the reserve, hypocritical hypocritical ambiguous lover alternate only. men and women in addition to friendship, lust got left, apparently satisfied with the roots of friendship.
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2, I'm 25, a one-year graduate students. worked with love Love for three years and will be the first to rush him apart for various reasons. In the window more than a year later, there is a good guy after me, feel more in tune, and very like him, so he promised him . He told me to get along well, but often think that they are not a complete person, he was afraid, because he once said he was a conservative person. Shun Shun sister, I want to go he has been. I know no regret use. I am not now to tell him his incomplete? I am afraid of losing him. or other marriage tell? time will not cause life is not happy? seen a lot of reasons for this are not well separated or example, so I am filled with worry and fear. Shun Shun sister, how can I do?
explain the consequences of this initiative, either immediately breaking up, or he always pinch you this little mistake, nothing to thorn pull you two. Do not worry, he is not necessarily a virgin, you and he is coordinating with, do not suck this thing. He never asked what you have to admit that he suspected something, anyway, the parties did not verified to are false.
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3, female 30, with one child, three years ago her husband was jailed because of financial problems, when a child was a week, women with children and mother live together, deep affection for her husband (love married for ten years). A year ago women know a man, a man or a stranger, a successful career. men back home once a week, and the remaining time in the women's city, one year together, the feelings were good Female has Male Dangcheng emotional pillar, is to find someone to help her husband Female commutation, will be back soon, women do not know how to do it, her husband came back, let her deal between the two men, she can not, can not hurt her husband be afraid, and her husband the day after the (economic), and the husband comes back, will know something woman, women did not dare to face.
are around this man can not give women marriage, women on her husband's feelings have occurred changes, the heart has changed, do not have the courage to divorce, child is too young, after all, a week at the age of no father, and now they are finally reunited father and son, women can not heartless. one side is the father, their husband, on the other side is only Can not give love lover marriage, women can not make a decision. Women do not want to touch the feelings of immorality, and now in this state, I hope to help women along sister.
we do not know you had Han embarrassing, lover not give you marriage, you and your regard for his men break up ah? betrayal and not this constant permanent one that tasted it, to close win their hearts, and your a good man running the family, the days will slowly get better .
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4, her boyfriend (rural people) in a foreign country to do projects, I (urban cadres families) in Beijing do the design. school met online, met him on my hands and feet, and said to me to do his girlfriend (he had just been with a girl abandoned school after him, before he and his first love is also breaking up the two places), was admired elite brilliant student, he has made good after the requirements, I do not agree, for me is also very cold, unfeeling he and I eventually breaking up, and later I learned that he knew the other girls was estimated to be polygonal love.
I went to Beijing, bought a house, work well, as to the next level , called him and asked his current situation and learned that he ran his girlfriend and the wealthy, he proposed and I and good (the side to know when he has contact with another girl, also waiting for him to return home to marry the girl , then I did not really want to, and he is good, that we can not, his performance is lost, and this woman actually slept on together, the girl still a virgin). then I agree, and well, he started very well for me , the book to me (he took the woman gradually abandoned), he said I was the best, love me, I was his best. do not know this man to marry you (and I not been in a relationship with him)?
This behavior is not ye to men, at the present conditions are good for you, give up the other girls, the condition than you can tomorrow, who abandoned you. are not steady, not specific, his features, that problems will only be worse later, he will not alleviate mm because of his age soon enter the stage of a bulletproof man.
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5, my brother 21 years old, introverted, did not temper Well, at home after college graduation year, did not go out looking for work, more and more eccentric character. My father is impatient, and he and my father. One time my mother nagging he did not work at home all day playing computer games, adults He has been raised, said he later how to do, he actually said my mother again, he jumped from the upstairs, which led my mother did not dare say. this time I also gave my brother a few times to find a job, because he did not work experience, do not come down, no go again (several times forced him to all my work), to my parents and I was furious. at home are typically asked him one sentence answer, difficult to communicate. Once I anxious reviled him, and he said that we do not know him. I told him, you do not love yourself and your family to communicate, how do we understand you. my parents who have five or six years old, and hard for so many years, I do not want They worried for his brother, parents worry about the body, and I am a headache. shun shun you help me sister, how are we to do?
put him out and told him to self-reliance. no teeth to do this step, he never have the future.
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6, I 33, LG35, married 9 years, children 2 years of age. LG has a one-night stand, and talk to him later, I choose to forgive. our income disparity, and I institutions. his career heavy heart, all my chores, the amateur to give him work. he willing to spend money for me and family, made money for my pipe, also love children. We usually share a lot, all work, like his career . last year for his work, we became husband and wife in different places over the weekend, most of them I used to see him and know his colleagues, but also nodded. His great pressure of work, and the old in some places to socialize. Recently he signs prostitutes may have, I am very contradictory, afraid to prove, but that his life so hard to be living in the shadows. I traditionally sensitive, do not accept the lover and the like. want to leave, they could not bear the pain. I do not know what to do.
harp: a man's penis how to treat business problems. a smooth already do not remember how many times said that a marriage is to continue, not by self-regulatory status of a man penis determined. as a husband, he basically qualified; As a man, prostitution, and one-night stands are your hobbies outside the jurisdiction; catch the bulk of it, ignoring all the things that can be ignored, or China with a few couples can continue?
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7, I 30 husband 36, married 3 years, children 1 year old. My husband and I are husband and wife over the weekend, visibility two days a week, no sex life during pregnancy also once a week. then I was pregnant, we have no sex life, because we all afraid the child is not good. now more than 1 year old children, the number of sex life are endless one hand. Sometimes I ask, my husband told me that women do not get too value the sex life, sex life in only a very small part of life He taught me to want to do something else, do not dwell on them together all day.
In fact, I did not think about, but sometimes do their own sexual needs, to how to do, only to find her husband ah, but often hit a snag, I Xiuyou angry, but then seldom mentioned, but always finding fault quarrel. Shun Shun sister, I'm not old, I do not know how to do always go on like this? I do not know no sex marriage can not last? do not know will not derail the future? I want to live good, I do not want to derail.
Oh, you are either a kidney to a man can not fulfill it, or is too full to eat outside. This marriage thing, sex is dotted, if you can change of thought, perhaps too easy to point. tell him to say: you satisfied with me, and I think for myself, that time you can blame me. If he does not work help you solve the sex-starved, it would find it of supplies. brackets, with rubber, and some meat, look for the latter need to be careful, do not engage in barbarous people who have Chiruan Fan suspects.
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8, I 23, north. boyfriend of 25, his hometown in the southern rural areas, poor family. Now city business, revenue in general. the university, and he met online, going out for 3 years, the feelings have been good, but eventually have to face reality. he made were good, the external conditions are not OK, my parents, of course it is, I know how much hard facing the future, but still does not fit, very painful. Recently he wanted to know my family attitudes, and do not want to a delay of. My parents would not see him. Though he was working in the north, does not intend to buy a house, that means he ultimately have to return home.
if others, long hours, but I always think he's good . always feel that no one like him again then try to please me (maybe I was missing family warmth, he is adopt a child, and later also divorced parents), and I also particularly low self-esteem, feel very with him and did not mate standards. I normal? feelings of my heart are dependent on him, and felt happy that he will not separate. you say how can I do ah.
if two of you are feeling good, consider the neglect of family factors. After all, you just adopt a child of the child, and adoptive parents have experienced divorce, maybe they are too busy self-care, which also control your emotional thing. Of course you have to do advance work: the case of his parents said, to achieve their support. If they are opposed, you have to honestly say that your ideas, I believe they would do you good recommendations.
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9, My girlfriend and I living together for three years, and she urged me to get married every day, I did not prepare, I do not know whether her statement, I want to change the better, am I really bad? how can I do?
want to get married to quickly scattered, but cohabitation what? you are not afraid delay, the girl's youth, but others make you sleep a day, less one day. men to simply, to be responsible, love a woman gave her the results, do not love or not love to sensible point, auto-far away from the others, so that people will and the little devil.
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10, father 59 mother 57, married thirty years, 2005 years ago, very harmonious family, father away from the 05 earned some money (not very good before the economic situation , and external debt), out with a good friend, and that only thirty-year-old woman around. Ernv Ku Quan are divided not, yesterday my husband to give that woman a slap. I wanted to ask how to make them separate? experience this matter, children should be how to deal with?
not the daughter of the worry about this problem. you have to empathy, the father that if you are 38 you phase is good? is a good friend after the son of a slap fight, so what you will thoughts? general women are vindictive, life and death for this slap in the face do not let go of the old man also. You unwise man. He is a man he did not know? affair did not matter if the moves of a man, woman does not a steal? He Davis has 60 people, and even a bar the evening before the bright end, so children are not to control, with him gone. Finally, he definitely want to go home, but now as a man, he has valiantly it, for sure not listen. So you had simply let matters drift.
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11, I'm 29, love the university students, fell in love got married 5 years 1 year 2 years living together, not sterile. love simple and straight, stubborn reticent, circle of life than work small. We are feeling good. Man Yang, 38, married, 3 years ago, he and I have had brief contact with the work, he very outgoing, smooth cooperation, no contact outside of work. Last year, together again, each other, to have lines, with In his words is the fate to. Then I came out from the unit alone to struggle with him and his encouragement, regardless of any operational problems, I never despaired, love gives me strength and support, I realize I can be so strong and tough. He said that with the introduction of me, his life has never been so calm and secure (his house before the war continued, the most serious one, his wife crossed swords).
he would like to let us have our own nest, recorded in my name. even if only for a weekly half-day meet. we do not want do not want to interfere with their life, family, even then bear, is attached to flesh and blood, not to mention they already have a Ning and appearance. we do not know how long this will go, just want to go long go long. Many times I can guide friends around, but I can not really loose his relaxation, carries a secret. love is always there after the dust has settled? Perhaps I do not need to answer, the answer has always been in their own hands. tell tree holes, and then shut it up the hole.
Well, this hole was open, perhaps a secret no one mind you, maybe someone will give you a warning.
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12, I am a divorced woman with a small boy. know he is the working relationship, because he was helping me, we started, he took a little girl. are talking about getting married, but I do not mind free from anxiety, I was very scared. He is my little old man than I am. One day, my college students (girls) to my house, my house (28 square cabin, that was me and the cloud of love nest), cloud warm to help me receive her, she lives my family, my classmates and bed, cloud sleep sofa, only one step away. early in the morning I left (to work), she also slept in my big bed, sitting next to the Internet cloud, she said this 9:00 left, the clouds also said something to go early in the morning, I thought she was gone, but she did not go, sleep more than 11 minutes to get up and go out together with the cloud, the cloud took her to visit our new house, Cloud asked her to eat chicken mixed at noon. It did not give me everything they both said.
because they do not worry, I went home at noon, the way I sent messages asking what he was doing? see clouds made of the information, knew that they at dinner in our restaurant frequented in my seat. in persuading colleagues, I Renzhao Lei go. What is a forced smile? me silly, only to cry secretly, secretly angry, was frightfully comfortable. cloud that I do not believe him, cheapskate, vexatious. let me how to believe? Nvwang I saw him and chat, my heart hurts. does not love, do not have to. I do not want to end up and away, he and I do not want to end up Marriage is not only to find people who love me. funny it! smile he has been stupid, knowing that he does not love me, do not let go. tired of begging to the hobby, not a long time. One day, love to the depths he was going away, I how should I do? really want someone to point me in the way. heart Hao Fan, clouds do not think he went wrong? my classmates did not go home, the cloud did not go, so Needing, the cloud has been left alone, he said he no place to go, he thought? Why not tell me that she did not go?
divorced single mother, you at least 30, right? less soap operas, and ? he will have plenty of other women the opportunity to eat and the same place, how are you going to do? cut off his penis security point, you do not?
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13, my husband, 38, 46, we re-home . married life is very harmonious. recently his ex-wife and disrupt our lives. be noted that, I am not righting the three. husband and wife have been divorced for 12 years, I divorced 6 years, 2 years ago we in love, got married six months ago. He unit to find his ex-wife to me, saying they did not break, even said that they still go to bed. I know this is her fabricated. because my husband and a very good relationship. we are colleagues, every day almost inseparable, and her husband once told me Her incomprehensible, when her affair, also sued for divorce, which led to almost commit suicide rather too proud of her husband. So has remarried several times refused her request.
My husband and I also think that people ignore her husband's family is was. But she constantly harass me every day and her husband call the phone and office, we can only give her hang up, interrupting the work of other colleagues, very sorry. and she often came to find me aggressive unit, I do not want to publicly bored with her noisy, silent and can be confused with other colleagues know the truth that my husband and how she really was. She called me the unit leadership, saying her husband had this year, regardless of Pangui her 21-year-old daughter. to know, the 18-year-old gave support payments before, but now she has regular contact with him, and we often give them some money, and that her children can still be. My husband and I are the organs, can not resign, but If she find us, to resign it is. how to do it? Shun Shun help me how to get rid of this shameless and neurotic woman you? Thank you!
key is not your strong men undecided. If he is harassing you in the ex-wife, the fair and square so rightly warned his ex-wife several times in public, even if the woman and then a thick skin, it died down a. afraid of you men are always sticky gooey in front of her, no one made it clear that people have felt barriers to remarry only you. after the trouble she come to you, you treated her like a man directly in front of you lead to, anyway, a unit, anyway, my colleagues and know seven thousand seven hundred eighty-eight, simply understand that the three public decision once. If When you face your husband told her categorically: remarried No way, you have to come harass, I hit 110. we do not believe this woman can come.
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14, I'm 28 he was 27, undergraduate students are were classmates. He always low I level, with 6 years, last year he went to his home, I worked in a local school. parents had met. apart this year, an excuse for many reasons he did not see me, but also did not give me cost of living. I think his mortgage stress. two months ago, he said, does not want to marry me, has always been this way before, pressed upon by the only intervention that has a female colleague, his friend said. I decided to give him a chance explain the performance, let him see me.
last month he came to see me, and I think he saw me,UGG boots clearance, will think of our feelings, to be cherished. but he was very indifferent performance, speech act to disclose the admiration of my colleagues, after deliberately kept his colleagues found that I love you send text messages to know that they have talked about love, at least he has betrayed me psychologically. He broke up with my home, he collapsed, said can not do without me, saying He was wrong, after what to me how good. also crazy for ten days, I basically ignored him, and that nothing in the two days. friends advise points. from the emotional sense I can not let go. But he I promise to do is limited. I told him the city do not graduate, so he told me, he said he is not likely, that will let me go to him, I'm good! how can I do? is not so give up? or should give him a chance? After all, people make mistakes. But I do not know his current worth to forgive mistakes in the end.
this out or it, you have been eliminated.
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15, I know my husband eleven years of marriage more than a year. He had an alcoholic drink every morning and evening. He was an only child, the family is very spoiled him. had elected to marry him, because he had given up for me the opportunity to go to big cities, I was moved to pay him, so he did not want to give up, do not want to give up years of emotions, despite family opposition to marry. The want married, he got a job, will quit the wine can work goes wrong, he would blame me, or even shot to hit me, more and more serious, I have put up, the old guess I was not good enough. He does not drink every day to eat, each time for this fight, I think his self-mutilation, but also torture me, no matter hard soft way I have used, and may be useless.
as drinking more than a year of marriage with children can be, so that he can not stop drinking he never, and I each live every day to see his face, he was pleased I am glad he was not happy I did not dare touch him, afraid of his drink even more. I can not help, and every day we are like the role of police and thieves, others are say that I am silly, advised me to divorce him but I can not let go, let go this feeling (because we have never betrayed each other, he had also very good to me), social pressure also great, although it is open era , but I also 31, and away from the can do? want to be alone is unrealistic.
withdrawal treatment of alcoholics do not do, that there is no hope. you'll be that Jour, then continue endure him. do not understand some women's mind is not filled with lead, there is an excuse for self-flagellation.
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16, Hello, I see you in the magazine's website, read the story of the feelings of others, so really want to tell you their stories, please help me out of ideas.
07 年 10 early after a neighbor introduced me now, he had to see him did not hold much hope, because I heard He has an apartment and a car, feel such a good man, should not fancy me, I have neither superior appearance, and no prominent family background, I'm just an ordinary girl. But neighbors enthusiasm, we are not well refuse , anyway, does not necessarily read into the Well, look no loss.
felt he was very shy when they meet, she is a bit fat, a very mature man, he and I prodded his shy smile laughing. we sat down, a brief introduction to their own circumstances. conversation, found that he is a more humorous person, but he has been afraid to look the other me. I suck? talked for about half an hour, each left a contact, and then he said something to push to hurry away, and also did not see his car is what the so-called.
home my mother asked me how I, as it is, I said, a little fat, to be honest, I do not like. had had a meeting room waiting for me back online, he sent a text message, I have not rejected him, but his friendly reply. after day, he should say that it is active, active message, call me, I feel the time to meet him and just completely different. Our first official date was a few days later, he came to pick me up from work my company, I saw his car, turned the van also little old, and my heart is not very comfortable. This car is also called a car? Fortunately, he did not come to the door looking for my company, or really hurt decent, so that the car, which was such as a fat man like uncle. However well-intentioned people is to pick me up, gotta give people points face, I went to his car, he handed me two oranges, said this is his favorite fruit.
he sent me home, then left, because he have to work at night. He came to me at night after work. he finishes his work, he set me to go a hill, not a park or coffee shop lover like dating place. But the mountain winds, night is also very beautiful, I place the date of his choice is quite satisfactory. We did not get off to sit in the car chat, he kept telling jokes, I broke the belly laugh, God, how would there be so funny person. and feel good chat with him, but nothing in the emotional development, I feel very strange. he sent me home, sent the short message is ambiguous, that it hates me, and I did not feel could be , just think he was quite funny.
the next day, day or night he never stopped SMS, call and I develop feelings, he was very enthusiastic, and had seen the shy person who is simply poles do not. Unfortunately, I did not see him, you know I am a Guainv Hai, every day at home, companies, two line, has never fallen in love for me, no experience in this area, and I found myself look bad, not a great Man.
once out of his car, the first time he kissed me, he kissed me so enthusiastic, I was no other feeling, to feel halo. I did not know a kiss is not like other people feel, I feel very good. He not only kissed my mouth, kissed my neck, the neck, leaving a red hickey. home, my mother ask me how, I hum and haw, do not know what to say export, but I know my mother guessed the reason. My mother told me, must be careful, known only for a few days so put your parents like this. I know mothers worry about, I am firmly promised that, anyway, only kiss, i will not say yes. mother will worry. I knew adults were over, they know how to protect themselves.
with pro- pro, he has become increasingly bold, and I always feel too fast, because I still did not raise him emotionally, I do not hate him, but did not really like him. I have been tepid, and he enthusiasm, as always, his mouth, as the sweet talk, he is what methods are exhausted, but I still can not be completely fascinated by him, I did my best! thought we were also so kind, who think of him all the time plan with how to get me. He had much scheming, finally I got. For that matter, I am sorry. When I was a virgin when he knew he was excited, tightly holding me, talking forever I am good, I was feeling very happy, very happy, thinking they had found Prince Charming. Since this incident, I found myself feeling a breakthrough for him, I began to like him, obsessed him. I found him outside in addition to fat , the original there are many advantages. our feelings developing well soon, we became a pair of gluey, sometimes noisy, but the feeling has been heating up. to the end of the year, the matchmaker and parents urging, asked He took me to his house to see and meet his parents. He is also very serious promise me, will take me to, I hope I can become his wife.
One day, I received a phone call, a claim his mother who called me and said that we should go to his family home in the years after the play, to talk about the way we do. I was surprised and very nervous, the future mother in law. She said I bought a necklace and bracelet as a gift, let his son to me. first time I heard my mother's phone next to me almost do not know how nervous answer, do not know how he is answered. phone hung up, I immediately called him , told him that his mother talked to me, he said, has a gift for my mother at night when I brought my pick.
with the future mother's call, I am even more sure he is my MR RIGHT, on the other the years to his home. I began to consider what should be prepared to go with their family. as time went by, after a year, to the appointed time, the night before, he was a cousin called to say his grandmother did not, to He hurried back, his soul never scared, and socks naked, hastily left. After two days, he did not come to me, that is for grandma mourn. and we said yes to his home before the visit things naturally pushed back, so after three months, mourn the days passed, the matchmaker, and my parents began to worry, why their parents do not come late call? listen to him, his mother wants us to 2008 married, but we both parents were not met. Many people are guessing that if there were any hidden reason. Then, after a half months, probably in May when my mother could not bear it, because according to us customs, 5,6 lunar month is not a happy occasion, my mother worried that if the interim decision to get married, then the time will be very rushed. So a matchmaker, my parents urged him. he gave in to reason, that his mother had uterine cancer, need to operation, the condition is very serious. to know the news, we are very shocked, and very sympathetic, before his suspicions were gone. My mother told me that the future must go to visit her mother, a wife should do next . I mean my mother told him, but he strongly disagreed, left to push the right push, it is so at his insistence, I finally did not go into his house. I, ah, etc. So, there is such a month or so.
on June 21, 2008 that afternoon, I received my mother's phone, her mother very calmly said to me, let me to go home, something to ...
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